It was mid of 2005, an Indian origin Hindu engineer was working in the Middle East and he was looking for his life-partner via matrimonial sites. After a lot of search, he found an MBA girl from the same town of his original home. She was average looking, smart, was working in a reputed company in Delhi.
After a few months of chatting, the boy decided to visit Delhi to meet her. It was not love at first sight, however after few meetings (international travels), the boy decided to marry her. Their family was happy, as they were struggling to get a good groom for her elder daughter. She did not have passport at that time, and her family arranged the Passport quickly and in 2007, both got married.
The girl’s mother was not liked by many people in her locality for her selfish attitude. However, her father was very popular and everybody liked him for his simplicity. Boy’s family is also well known in that town.
After marriage, the couple started living in the Middle East, the boy introduced her among their community people and it was kind of happy married life. The wife had only one sister. The mother of the wife trained the girls in such a way that they tend to compete with boys in all aspects and they even try to show that girls are better than the boys.
This attitude of the wife started impacting her married life. Just to show her mother, just to prove in the society that girls are better than the boys, the wife started showing her true colours. Her mother started playing tricks and also interfered into the marital life of her daughter. The daughter’s father was also kind of a henpecked husband, and he was always controlled by his wife as he spent his entire life like that.
Soon, the wife’s mother realized that her daughter’s husband is not a person whom she can control. So, the mother started playing politics against the husband and their relationship started deteriorating.
After few years, the couple moved from A to B in Middle East and started residing in XXX. The boy did everything possible to make his wife happy, they stayed in beautiful houses, they travelled to many international destinations, they maintained good social circle etc. Finally, after few years in the marriage, they became parents to a cute baby boy. It was a great moment for them!
The baby was growing up, however, the wife’s mother continued interfering into the husband-wife relationship and the wife was finally fully controlled by her mother. The husband had no clue of how far this was going, but he continued trusting his wife.
In 2012, husband wanted to apply for a permanent residency in Canada, wife was happy, but after a few days she refused to relocate, because her mother said NO. Same year, the husband wanted to buy an apartment in Middle East, the wife was happy, but her mother stopped that too.
When others interfere in ones marital life, the relationship gets poisoned. In the mean time, wife’s mother advised her to take an apartment in their home town, without even informing the husband. Later the husband came to know about this.
Wife’s parents were in politics and their names were regularly coming in the local news-papers for corruption charges. They used to make money betraying other poor people, as per various news channels/news papers.
Husband’s parents did not have any clue about what was happening. They are very simple people. The wife stopped calling or contacting her in-laws and did not even call them for nearly 6-7 years; she was only interested in maintaining relationship with her own family and was constantly misguided by her mother.
The wife’s mother always spoke about feminism and finally it affected their marriage. The wife was also working and she started showing to her family/relatives that girls can only do better than boys. In this process, the wife started ignoring husband’s priorities and started focusing on her own stuff, while her mother kept fuelling the situation.
In 2018 end, wife’s mother came to the couple’s place in the Middle East with a mission and she fought directly with the husband, created differences between the couple, and advised the husband to take separate house. She even forcefully slept with her daughter and grandson and forced the husband to sleep in other room.
Wife had lost her father 2-years before and the wife’s mother who was now left alone, wanted a constant companion in her daughter. This led to her fighting with her daughter’s husband creating troubling between the couple. Her ultimate aim was to stay with her grandson and with her elder daughter, so she tried her best to remove the husband from the home and her daughter’s life.
After her father’s death, the wife also became restless and she was often seen partying till late night fully drunk in the night-clubs, without her husband. Initially, husband did not say anything, but it became a regular weekend activity for her and she kept going to nightclubs alone, and may be she had found someone special, although she never revealed the same.
The husband-son used to stay in the house and the wife kept partying whole night in the night club with her close friend. As for her mother, it was fun only. May be her mother also knew about her new boyfriend and they probably together were keeping the husband in dark.
After sometime, her mother finally returned to India, and the wife filed a divorce case secretly, in the Middle East. All the mother-daughter plans were now becoming a reality as they completely ignored the welfare of the couple’s son. The wife too became very abnormal, as if somebody was pushing her to get rid of this family bonding. The wife was so desperate that she did not care about her son anymore, even when the child wanted both parents to stay together.
Some of her close friends also provoked her to go for the divorce, and she was now in a different world. Those women who provoked her, are happily living their own lives, after ruining hers.
The husband later realized that because he gave her so much freedom in her life, because he supported his wife from all angles and in all her activities, he was now paying the price. From a struggling life in Delhi, the wife reached this status only because of her husband’s support, but she was now ditching her own husband, perhaps for a new man in her life.
Her husband knows only one thing now, how to see smile seeing his son’s face. Being a mother, his wife did not think about her small son and consequences of divorce on the child.
For his wife, she is in a different world now and she has completely overlooked psychological challenges the child can face due to separation. Just to prove her point, the wife started spreading lies among her common friends to get moral support from her social circle.
The mother of the wife is equally happy, as she can now come to Middle East to stay with her daughter and grandson. Her mother did everything possible to safeguard her own future, and broke her daughter’s marriage. Heights of selfishness!
The husband is still quiet, and he is doing his best to make his son happy. He knows, the small kid is going through the worst phase of his life and her mother does not even care. The family court denied Divorce in Middle East, as there was no basis of that divorce request by the wife.
Later, both mother-daughter duo again filed a divorce case in India. This case is still ongoing. Due to radical feminism, a mother did not spare her own daughter’s life.
These types of women are really dangerous to the society. A mother or wife is supposed to hold the family bonding, but in this case, both mother-daughter duo are breaking the family for their own happiness.
Radical Feminism is a social evil, and it can destroy lives of many children.
Author chooses to remain anonymous.
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