An undated audio chat has been doing the rounds of twitter and the same is disturbing since it promotes hate sex and other violent expressions towards women.
Surprisingly, this conversation should have been equally worrying to all, who turned into bloggers and activists during the Bois Locker Room controversy, nonetheless…twitter feminists have chosen to overlook the same this time.
About Clubhouse Conversation
On June 9, an audio of Clubhouse conversation between some social media influencers started going viral, where one of the speakers normalised ‘hate sex’ with ‘sanghis’ because women are ‘hot’.
In the audio posted by twitter handle @squineon, the chat was titled “Sex with your Ex” and the discussion of topic was “Do you only date hot people”. One of the speakers identified as Neeraj Kadamboor made a derogatory remark on women who differ from his political ideology.
Moderator Janice asked Neeraj if he only dated hot people, to which he replied,
I do all kind of people, but on dating apps, I do sometimes thirst for these very hot Sanghi types. Just for fun.
Many people found the above statement funny. Another speaker identified as Varshita said,
Sanghis are not hot!
…..to which Neeraj replied,
They look hot but…
Neeraj was again interrupted by another speaker and moderator, identified as Aishwarya on the Clubhouse, who sarcastically commented,
It’s Sanghis, so you know Neeraj…
Neeraj continued to justify his “thirst for hot Sanghi women” on dating apps and quoted,
You know just for like the opposite of paper bag sex if I could cover the…
Another speaker in the room interrupted him and said,
It is like hate sex.
The so called creepy SM influencers are showing their b!goted mindset, they're so obsessed with Sanghis that they want to do 'hate sex' with RW girls.— squineon (@squineon) June 9, 2021
This is Sex Jihad or what?@NCWIndia please take action on:@KushaKapila @otherwarya @janiceseq85 @ankushbahuguna @santumisra pic.twitter.com/ZJsZCbED3N
Clubhouse is an audio-based social networking app, which recently crossed 1 million downloads on the Android Play Store.
Kangana Ranaut Calls Herself #HotSanghi Woman
Actor Kangana Ranaut – who was recently suspended permanently from Twitter – took to her Instagram handle on Wednesday, shared her past pictures and wrote:
Librus: Sanghi women aren’t hot… Me: Hold my beer
Do You Recall Bois Locker Room?
A group of teenager boys allegedly created an Instagram/Snapchat group chat called Bois Locker Room to share photos of minor girls. The group allegedly involved discussions objectifying women and graphic sexual language.
Swati Maliwal, Delhi Commission for Women had taken suo moto cognisance in the case and immediately sent notices to Delhi Police and Instagram. She had also demanded that a report on action be filed within a week.
Delhi Police Cyber Cell filed an FIR against unidentified persons under relevant Sections of the Indian Penal Code and the IT Act, however, later disclosed that the ‘rape threats’ given on snapchat platform were by a girl posing as a man. All twitter feminists had gone silent after disclosure by Delhi Police.
Many influenced social media users still wrongly believe, that Bois Locker Room rape threats were given by boys – because the motivated campaign died almost instantly after accused boys were given a clean chit in rape threat case.
Read Detailed Article Below: There was no action demanded on accused Girl who gave Rape Threats
Usual twitter feminists were then seen going overboard even before any allegations were proven against anyone. Many mothers got swayed by this social media campaign and started penning blogs on “How to Raise Sons…”
Actor Swara Bhasker then tweeted,
#boyslockerroom a telling tale of how toxic masculinity starts young! Underage boys gleefully planning how to rape & gangrape minor girls. Parents & teachers must address this with those Kids. Not enough to ‘hang rapists’ .. we must attack the mentality that creates rapists!”
Another actor Richa Chadha took to Twitter and then wrote,
This a multi-faceted problem. Because everyone is still squeamish about sex education in our populous/moralistic country, teenagers are confusing porn for sex education! And now data is free. How dangerous! This will explode in our faces in the next five years sadly, I reckon.
Journalist Barkha Dutt could not stop expressing herself, labelled ‘accused’ boys as criminal and wrote,
#LockerRoomBoys are anything but funny. They are hideous, sexist and criminal.
#MeTooIndia supporter Chinmayi Sripaada
As for the conversation on ‘Dont blame the gender, blame the person’ we are still talking about the majority. 1. Which gender’s nudes are used for ‘revenge porn’? 2. Which gender is asked for dowry? 3. Which gender has more chances of being killed at birth?
Amidst all this fiasco, another boy from Gurugram, Manav Singh, 17, was called out in a #MeToo Instagram post by some girls. Manav was shame, humiliated and threatened so much without any evidence, that he ended his life on May 4, 2020 within 2 hours of the scandalous social media post.
- When we blog about Rights for Men, we also take a stand against demeaning the respect for women
- Casual slangs like paper bag sex or hate sex should have alarmed every single women’s commission head by now, however, there is absolute silence from all usual women rights activists
- This exposes the hypocrisy how several hashtag champions plan and run campaigns against Men, only when it suits them professionally, personally and politically
- In the recent past, TV feminists who slam and abuse men before court verdicts, had gone all out to protect and support one of their own – Accused Pearl Puri
- Most of the twitter feminists keep mum when Men – who are on their side of ideology – go to any extent to demean or body shame women
- However, they are prompt to pick up even a single word if uttered by Men – who are not on their side of the ideology
- Men’s Day Out believes in being objective and absolutely apolitical – however, it is important to expose the dual face of women empowerment activists, who are selective in protecting dignity of the female gender in general
Manav Singh Suicide Case Update – October 2020