FLAP Theory | Planning To Get Married? Here Are Some Pointers You Can Follow

While we cover stories about Men and several matrimonial issues they face post marriage and also between engagement and the final vow, there is always an element of doubt that a would-be groom has in his mind.

Whether, she is the right girl for me? Whether our marriage will be successful? Whether our families will have mutual respect for each other? These things are important and need to be clear in one’s mind before entering a sacrosanct bond….. the way it is described at least under the Hindu Marriage laws in India.

One of our readers has taken efforts to collate and summarise this for many young Men – contemplating marriage – who are going through this dilemma. A fighter against Gender Biased Laws himself, our reader enlists the FLAP theory which will guide your all.

Family of your Partner

Your Lifestyle

Attitude of your Partner

Your Parents

The reader has categorized real life situations and highlighted actions as Green (GO), Blue (ADVISORY/ACCESS RISK), Red (AVOID)

1) Family of your Partner

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2) Your Lifestyle

3) Attitude of your Partner

4) Your Parents

While some may agree to disagree with certain points above, the same are subjective in nature and curated by someone who has been fighting his divorce battle since over a decade, after his wife chose to walk out of matrimonial home and demand maintenance. The marriage lasted only for few months, while the man is still fighting the demands of maintenance in court.

Also, marriage is a gamble, do not look at it as a destination. If the journey is not smooth, accidents are bound to happen. Men and their families must educate themselves with matrimonial laws and be prepared for any legal hassles if the marriage does not succeed.